Traveling the world can open your mind and enrich your life. But for women, especially those traveling alone, it comes with specific challenges. It's often the individual behind the glass window or the one operating the X-ray machine who gazes with judgment and unsettling assumptions. Here, I want to highlight the discrimination women face while traveling and why we shouldn’t let it disturb our peace of mind. Let’s go!
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The Stigma
Growing up in Asia, it becomes clear that there's a distinct line between men and women in the country. Women of status frequently appear in the media, showcasing their greatness, yet it’s well known that there's another realm where men receive equal treatment without having to prove themselves. This issue isn't confined just to Asia; numerous countries continue to perpetuate segregation and discrimination against women. It’s a sad reality, but it doesn’t have to define your reality. Forge your own destiny by crossing that line and facing those challenges head-on. It won't be easy, but stand your ground and never look down.
Why Solo Female Travelers
When I left the country after obtaining my professional license right after completing my university studies, I faced significant discrimination as a woman leaving. The immigration officers were intensely observant, akin to werewolves prowling for their prey. They seemed eager to bring you down, pin you to the ground, and make you feel like a defeated victim as you crawled out of the office. Solo female travelers are often seen as vulnerable; without a male figure for protection, they believe they can easily overpower them.
The Mentality
I’m puzzled by the treatment of lone female travelers, even when you present all the correct documentation—visa in hand and every necessary paper to validate your worth. They still seem to look down on you as if you’ve committed an offense. I urge you, don’t allow them to intimidate you. There exists a crab mentality in some parts of Asia, where some believe that you don’t deserve to venture abroad. They assume you cannot be independent, and as a woman, you’re often seen through the lens of outdated standards that dictate women should remain in the country, rather than exploring opportunities abroad where you can grow, earn a better living, and create the life you desire.
The Awakening
I speak not only for myself and my own experiences but also for the individuals I've encountered during my travels, the stories shared by friends, and the traumatic events that have affected those they know. I am not here to dissuade women from leaving the country; rather, I aim to empower and encourage you to step out and demonstrate your strength. Whether it's for work or travel, don’t shy away—let us unite to confront and overcome the cruelty and discrimination faced by female travelers.
The Supremacy
When I started working as an Expat, crossing the border was like being watched through a microscope. Border officials were always curious about solo female travelers, as it’s a rare circumstance; however, they’re very lenient with white female travelers. The white supremacy has dawned on me, and I was jealous. They smiled at them or simply didn’t care to check on their documents and just let them slide in like it’s a waterpark just for the white travelers. And in the corner, a brown-skinned solo female traveler is being interviewed intensely with disapproving eyes, despite showing off a return ticket back to their country, an itinerary, and a hotel reservation.
Growing up in Asia, it becomes clear that there's a distinct line between men and women in the country. Women of status frequently appear in the media, showcasing their greatness, yet it’s well known that there's another realm where men receive equal treatment without having to prove themselves. This issue isn't confined just to Asia; numerous countries continue to perpetuate segregation and discrimination against women. It’s a sad reality, but it doesn’t have to define your reality. Forge your own destiny by crossing that line and facing those challenges head-on. It won't be easy, but stand your ground and never look down.
Why Solo Female Travelers
When I left the country after obtaining my professional license right after completing my university studies, I faced significant discrimination as a woman leaving. The immigration officers were intensely observant, akin to werewolves prowling for their prey. They seemed eager to bring you down, pin you to the ground, and make you feel like a defeated victim as you crawled out of the office. Solo female travelers are often seen as vulnerable; without a male figure for protection, they believe they can easily overpower them.
The Mentality
I’m puzzled by the treatment of lone female travelers, even when you present all the correct documentation—visa in hand and every necessary paper to validate your worth. They still seem to look down on you as if you’ve committed an offense. I urge you, don’t allow them to intimidate you. There exists a crab mentality in some parts of Asia, where some believe that you don’t deserve to venture abroad. They assume you cannot be independent, and as a woman, you’re often seen through the lens of outdated standards that dictate women should remain in the country, rather than exploring opportunities abroad where you can grow, earn a better living, and create the life you desire.
The Awakening
I speak not only for myself and my own experiences but also for the individuals I've encountered during my travels, the stories shared by friends, and the traumatic events that have affected those they know. I am not here to dissuade women from leaving the country; rather, I aim to empower and encourage you to step out and demonstrate your strength. Whether it's for work or travel, don’t shy away—let us unite to confront and overcome the cruelty and discrimination faced by female travelers.
The Supremacy
When I started working as an Expat, crossing the border was like being watched through a microscope. Border officials were always curious about solo female travelers, as it’s a rare circumstance; however, they’re very lenient with white female travelers. The white supremacy has dawned on me, and I was jealous. They smiled at them or simply didn’t care to check on their documents and just let them slide in like it’s a waterpark just for the white travelers. And in the corner, a brown-skinned solo female traveler is being interviewed intensely with disapproving eyes, despite showing off a return ticket back to their country, an itinerary, and a hotel reservation.
Sadly, we have to go through this segregation based on where we’re from and the color of our skin. But don’t let this seep in through your bones; you are what you are, and you don’t deserve this kind of treatment. Poker smile, show them your paperwork, and don’t let them make you feel like you’re less of a woman because you’re not that white or you’re Asian. Let this be a beacon for us brown-skinned, yellow, or olive-skinned women that all women should be equal and stand tall for who you are.
The Predators
After moving from Asia to North America, I've never felt so different. The second country wasn't too bad —they're polite and kind. This behavior, I was told, is subtle, as they're simply raised to be nice. However, when I moved to another country, I met some people who openly dislike a mocha blended Frappuccino.
The Predators
After moving from Asia to North America, I've never felt so different. The second country wasn't too bad —they're polite and kind. This behavior, I was told, is subtle, as they're simply raised to be nice. However, when I moved to another country, I met some people who openly dislike a mocha blended Frappuccino.
One time in the immigration section, there’s a line for the citizens - honored to be one!. As I walk through this lane, the officer, who looked confused, would shout louder, “Only for the citizens.” I would maintain eye contact and let him shatter himself into pieces. They would again and again say this to everyone as if their citizens didn’t know how to read signs or we’re just not milky enough for them. You’ll be in queue for a while waiting for their judgmental stare and interview, and as you wait in line, an officer will ask everyone to show their passport because they’re not sure if we’re milky enough for this lane.
I’ve never seen this kind of treatment before, but of course, you’re in the land of oat milk and honey; anything mixed with a hint of cocoa is questionable. And as you get to the counter, if you’re milky, you’ll have some nice chitchat here and there, a small smirk from their faces. However, they tend to be different from other races, asking you weird questions. I’ve learned that it’s better to wear a mask in that way; there’s less interaction, and you get out of that inequality counter as fast as you can.
Let It Go
This isn’t something you can easily dismiss, as it burrows deep within you. Accepting this truth can be challenging; it took me some time to realize that how others behave, treat you, and what they say doesn't truly matter. Ultimately, they are insignificant in your life; their opinions should hold no weight since you do not depend on them for essentials like food, money, shelter, or your well-being. Their views are merely reflections of their narrow mindset. It’s disheartening to see their ignorance and jealousy towards your courage to step out of your comfort zone and embrace a new journey.
You possess a superior mindset, so don’t allow them to take away your happiness and peace of mind. When confronting this kind of treachery, it all boils down to your mentality and how you perceive yourself. I have faced numerous judgmental immigration officers and border patrol agents, but I refuse to let their racial discrimination bring me down. You should do the same, as you are better than them, and you know that deep down. Let them voice their opinions and envy your achievements and self-worth. It’s time to stand strong, ladies.
What You Do Now Matters
Allowing one officer or individual to belittle, judge, or humiliate you only sets a precedent for their behavior towards the next woman in line. I constantly remind myself that if I let this person triumph over me and diminish my worth, they will likely do the same to my female friends or the solo woman traveler I met, who shared incredible stories of her adventures. This cycle must be broken, and I commit to standing up for myself and all my fellow solo female travelers. I refuse to let it happen.
In every encounter, I have emerged victorious. I always flew with a triumphant smile, and I have successfully crossed all the borders I needed to on my own. While I may come away emotionally hurt, they know they did not break me. Why should we bow down to these men and allow them to make us feel incapable of achieving things independently? They are aware of our strength, and we must demonstrate to everyone that this is how it will be, and change will not come without our efforts. Travel will improve for all women, and we will be treated with equality, kindness, and warmth.
This post holds great significance for me, as it reflects experiences I’ve encountered, along with those of people I met on the road and their stories shared with me. I’m excited to share this inspiring tale of strength, hoping it illuminates your journey toward a more empowered life as a woman, especially for those traveling solo. Stay strong, ladies!
Let It Go
This isn’t something you can easily dismiss, as it burrows deep within you. Accepting this truth can be challenging; it took me some time to realize that how others behave, treat you, and what they say doesn't truly matter. Ultimately, they are insignificant in your life; their opinions should hold no weight since you do not depend on them for essentials like food, money, shelter, or your well-being. Their views are merely reflections of their narrow mindset. It’s disheartening to see their ignorance and jealousy towards your courage to step out of your comfort zone and embrace a new journey.
You possess a superior mindset, so don’t allow them to take away your happiness and peace of mind. When confronting this kind of treachery, it all boils down to your mentality and how you perceive yourself. I have faced numerous judgmental immigration officers and border patrol agents, but I refuse to let their racial discrimination bring me down. You should do the same, as you are better than them, and you know that deep down. Let them voice their opinions and envy your achievements and self-worth. It’s time to stand strong, ladies.
What You Do Now Matters
Allowing one officer or individual to belittle, judge, or humiliate you only sets a precedent for their behavior towards the next woman in line. I constantly remind myself that if I let this person triumph over me and diminish my worth, they will likely do the same to my female friends or the solo woman traveler I met, who shared incredible stories of her adventures. This cycle must be broken, and I commit to standing up for myself and all my fellow solo female travelers. I refuse to let it happen.
In every encounter, I have emerged victorious. I always flew with a triumphant smile, and I have successfully crossed all the borders I needed to on my own. While I may come away emotionally hurt, they know they did not break me. Why should we bow down to these men and allow them to make us feel incapable of achieving things independently? They are aware of our strength, and we must demonstrate to everyone that this is how it will be, and change will not come without our efforts. Travel will improve for all women, and we will be treated with equality, kindness, and warmth.
This post holds great significance for me, as it reflects experiences I’ve encountered, along with those of people I met on the road and their stories shared with me. I’m excited to share this inspiring tale of strength, hoping it illuminates your journey toward a more empowered life as a woman, especially for those traveling solo. Stay strong, ladies!
Have fun and be safe ^__^
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